If you’re reading this, you’ve probably recently ended a relationship.
It’s natural to want to snuggle up on the floor, grow your beard out, and let the odor build up.
That’s all well and good, but if you want your ex girlfriend back, this isn’t the way to go. In fact, you should get started right immediately if you want to get this girl back (and feel better about yourself in general).
Women have a reputation for being complicated and perplexing, but in reality, we are not that difficult to impress.
What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back?
So, Here’s What To Do
I have decided to divide this article up into two different sections,
- Attracting Your Ex During The No Contact Rule
- Attracting Your Ex After The No Contact Rule
If you’re unfamiliar with the no-contact rule, I strongly advise you to read this article. However, for those of my readers who aren’t interested in reading a 30-minute behemoth of a piece,
The No Contact Rule =A period of time during which you purposefully ignore your ex in order to make them miss you and cultivate areas of your personal life so that you emerge a new man!
You might be a little perplexed after reading that definition and wondering,
Umm… If I have to ignore him, how am I supposed to create any kind of attraction or make him fall in love with me?
How to Attract Her During No Contact:
You won’t be able to chat to your ideal lady if you don’t make contact, so you’ll have to find other ways to entice her.
The first thing to do is make sure that you avoid playing the victim.
A man who acts like a defenseless damsel in distress will not be attractive to a woman.
Instead of appealing and pleading with her to return, simply cut her off. Instead of gloomy melodramatic statements, share images of you out with the lads on your Facebook profile.
Make her wonder why you aren’t more upset.
Next, give her something to miss.
Your ex will be keeping an eye on you from afar to see how you’re doing. You don’t want her to look at your social media and realize she doesn’t regret breaking up with you; instead, you want her to miss you. Begin by focusing on your physical appearance.
This doesn’t imply you have to lift weights five days a week (though if you want to start doing so, go ahead!). However, begin with a daily walk and gradually increase to a daily run. Continue to improve your physical fitness. This will not only benefit you, but it will also increase your attractiveness.
What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back?
Post about your tiny triumphs online, for example, if you’ve always wanted to run a marathon but never have, and you finally decided to do so and survived, then brag about it!
In a similar vein, make sure you always look your best anytime you share something.
This means no photos of you in your pyjamas.
Alternatively, the most obnoxious images,
For an added bonus try to look and dress your best at all times in case you should run into your ex while out running errands.
Next you are going to want to make sure that you keep yourself busy.
Visit new eateries and sign up for classes in hobbies you’ve always wanted to try.
Make new acquaintances and reconnect with old ones. For a good time, join a sports league. While it’s fine to go out to bars and clubs now and then, you don’t want to create the idea that you’re using alcohol to mask the agony of the breakup.
Only publish photos of yourself out with friends in those locations if you know you’re looking your best and not a sloppy mess. Keeping yourself occupied will not only divert your attention away from your ex, but it will also impress her with the life you are leading.
You are likely to meet new women when out embracing life and enjoying it to the fullest.
Don’t be afraid to go out on dates (but do be safe). You should strive to avoid uploading photos that are too revealing. Snapchat videos of you grinding against random people aren’t going to appeal to any woman.
